six days until the summer of travel, during which i will be home for two and a half weeks until mid-august, begins. so i'm in one of these interregna where it doesn't really behoove me to meet new people since all momentum will be lost anyway. it's funny - i think most people's reactions would be to just have fun, but for me these states are sort of downers because i'm always looking for enduring things (and i'm not just talking about relationships here), and when this proves unviable i'm not really sure what to do. i guess my method of having fun often gravitates towards the future (although i admit that sentence looks wrong as i write it.) but anyway.

i've been reflecting for a while now. one of the weird things, which i probably wrote here earlier, is that my life is absolutely no different than it was when i was in a mood trough (in fact it is worse in some ways), and yet i am really very happy. i think it's related in large part to the being me again. i realize more and more that while i may not be of general interest, there are some people out there who i am perfect for in whatever capacity. it's very easy for me to picture a sort of person who i am uniquely fitted for - this comes with not being a stereotype, i suppose. this person may or may not actually exist, but it's certainly not hard to construct them in theory.

and so i haven't been particularly upset over the dying alone thing recently. i like who i am, and hopefully there is someone else who likes who i am. and if not, i have so much more fun being me that i think i will just stick to that.

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